Being seen more

 At the beginning of 2018 I made a vision board and put what I thought at the time were some pretty big goals and then never hung it up and put it away. Looking back at the year not only did I meet every single goal, but I passed alot by a ton and did other things I never dreamed I would accomplish!!!!

One of them was being seen more- A year ago I came out publicly with my business and my gifts instead of just working word of mouth which I had done for years. I was TERRIFIED of being rejected by people who have known me for years but didn't know that part of me. I have come to better terms that not everyone will love and accept me and THAT IS OKAY. I have met wonderful people and have helped transform lives, relationships, etc all because I have shared that part of myself.

I did a live video in my group last night and shared some vulnerable things that I hadn't shared before, some things only

Josh

and my kids knew, and said one of the things for 2019 is for me to be more authentic and to stop apologizing for being me. After years of trauma and abuse I have always apologized for being me. I have apologized when I have gotten emotional and sharing personal things because it made people uncomfortable in the past but by doing this exact thing and being vulnerable this past year, this is what made my business flourish and succeed. Because I was authentic. Because I was me. Because I shared personal things people needed to hear to know they weren't the only one! That is what has inspired others and what has helped them transform. How sad if I had not shared that with the world and how sad all those years I did hide. So no more, In 2019 I am going to share more and be more of my authentic self as there are still some things I have not shared publicly out of fear but I know once I do, they will help others. I know as I do that, everything I desire and more will come this year. So exciting!

I challenge you to do the same this year. #BeYou Be your authentic self. Be vulnerable. Inspire others. Speak your truth. You are amazing and have stories that can change lives. No more hiding!!!

If you haven't joined my group yet, you can do so here:

https://www.facebook.com/groups/Becomingyourownbestfriend