Justification

Since starting my business I have found people justify a lot more than I had noticed before.

When lack of money is the first scapegoat, I refer them to hours of my FREE videos and then different justifications come out to play!

One of the most common ones are

"Aimee I can't because I don't have time with work/kids, etc."

"Aimee I can't because I have 2, 3 or 4 kids"

"Aimee I can't because my husband is gone all day and I am tired when I finally have time"

Honestly I am the LAST person to tell these specific excuses to because if you remember anything about me, you know I am a mother of 5 kids and a caregiver for my husband. I not only did what I did after my husband become disabled while pregnant with our 5th, but I then found time to make the free things on top of that!

SO I can not and will not enable the excuses.

It would not only be disempowering to you but it would go against what I stand for and everything I did!

If you want to keep blaming money, then life, time, your husband, your kids, totally go for it- I won't stop you and can't, because it is your choice and I get it, I did it for years, I totally understand and it is totally easier sometimes to blame everything else rather than take any responsibility

BUT

If you think messaging me and asking for help, followed with all your "I can't because", looking for me to somehow help you, think again! Because I will NOT enable it and feed into the victim story. It would only hurt you more. And because I care, I won't feed that story for you.

I know I am being a smart ass but in all seriousness I wonder how people want me to respond sometimes because it definitely will NEVER be "Oh jeez, you have no time, you have X amount of kids, etc. That sucks! Totally give up on your dreams because you are right, you can't succeed. All your reasons are enough to stop right now and your worst fear is true, you will just fail so don't even try. It is all moneys fault, your spouses fault, your kids fault, time, life, God, etc."

I love you and if you want to keep telling yourself all the reasons you can't and choose to stay where you are, again it is your choice, but I will not enable it and I for sure am not available for it in my messenger with all the reasons you want my help but won't even watch my free stuff that could change your life!

You can empower yourself and stop the toxic blame game!

I firmly believe that if I can do it after all I have been through, you can do it too!

So take back your power or continue to blame everything in your life- It is always your choice

FYI: If this pisses you off I recommend journaling on it because my intent is for you to see there is another way, that you can empower yourself right this minute

*If you feel the need to comment your disagreement or your justification instead, don't, I will delete it.